Adultery in the heart is committed not only because man looks in this way at a woman who is not his wife, but precisely because he looks at a woman in this way. Even if he looked in this way at the woman who is his wife, he could likewise commit adultery in his heart. <– There we go. That was what I thought was not quite resolved in the last transcript.
08.27.12 ~ Interpreting the Concept of Concupiscence